If you’re exploring BDSM or other forms of kinky play, you’ve probably come across the word aftercare. But what does it actually mean? And why do so many kink communities treat it as essential?

There’s no official “menu” for kink, but sometimes we all need a little inspiration and ideas to help us explore. So, allow us to tease you with the possibility of 100 different types of kink…

Can you be a parent and still enjoy BDSM? Absolutely. Learn how kinky parents balance family life and kink with privacy, safety, and respect. From scheduling adult time to keeping toys secure, discover tips for maintaining intimacy while raising children.

Want to know one of the kinkiest skills out there? It’s not how to tie the perfect knot or crack a whip at just the right angle. It’s listening. Yes, listening. Proper, tuned-in, present-moment listening.

Desire is human. Desire is healthy. Desire is hot. So why do so many of us feel guilty the moment we name what we want? Somewhere along the line, desire got tangled up with shame. Respectful kink exists to untangle that knot.

So many of us have been taught to see “no” as rejection, failure, or something to push past. This is not only unsexy, it’s dangerous. Here are ten things people often think “no” means - and why they’re total, unadulterated bullshit.

One phrase can change everything - in the bedroom, at work, or anywhere else. “What if” is curiosity in action. And curiosity is where discovery lives - in kink, in love, in creativity, in life itself.

Here’s a secret: you don’t have to be kinky to learn from kink.

Strip it all back (pun intended), and respectful kink is a set of skills. And those skills aren’t just useful when someone’s tied up in your bed. They’re useful everywhere.

When most people hear the word kink, leadership probably isn’t the first thing that comes to mind. But some of the best lessons about leadership can be found in the dynamics of kink.

In respectful kink, boundaries are not just acknowledged - they’re celebrated. Saying no isn’t a problem. It’s part of the play. It’s what makes trust possible.

You might have spent your whole life living as if sex were shameful or taboo. It’s never too late to change that. Here’s why the 40s are a perfect time to embrace sex positivity.

We’d love to say we’ve been waiting a long time to welcome you to Respectful Kink - but that would be a lie. The idea was born barely a month ago, in the middle of some pillow talk during what was meant (and very consensually agreed) to be a one-night stand. And here we are.